Comment on Why does it seem like everyone is so good looking and beautiful nowadays?
adespoton@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
Part of what it points to is what you’re currently paying attention to. You don’t notice all the people who aren’t what you consider “good looking”.
Later in life, you’ll notice how many people have children in strollers, or drive fancy cars, or can afford houses. You may start noticing how many people own dogs, run regularly outside, or never look up from their phones.
It’s a form of selection bias; you tend to see the people that are most likely to catch your attention, and ignore the rest.
Try an exercise: start checking to see how many people you see in public smile with their eyes.
Lumidaub@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
Germans don’t smile without good reason. that’s inefficient.
adespoton@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
Germans don’t smile with their mouths; they generally do smile with their eyes. People who only look at mouths generally miss that.
Lumidaub@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
We do? Huh. Okay, but not without good reason.
adespoton@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
Of course not. That would be wasteful.
J52@lemmy.nz 2 weeks ago
… being happy is a good enough reason.