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LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week agoSee that’s counter-intuitive to me because doesn’t it usually imply some level of knowledge of the people or at least something you have in common?
I don’t know them, I’ve never seen any of them more than once, I’ve never spoken to or been spoken to by them anywhere I lived, because people IRL generally keep to themselves and just talking to random strangers is pretty weird all in all.
With your usage of the word “community” in “community centre” i just figured it’s an extremely old timey generic way to generically refer to a settlement, including cities, towns, residential areas/neighbourhoods, districts, zones, boroughs, areas and other localities.
In that case I’m not sure how OP is using the word community because I don’t know how I’d do anything with literally random collections of people on the street lol.
Infynis@midwest.social 6 days ago
Yes. That you live in the same area. You have the same elected representatives, you use the same public services, you shop at the same stores, you live with the same stakes. That’s why people say you need to get involved in your community. Whether or not you acknowledge it, you’re part of it
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
But that’ happenstance. Literally thousands of randoms live in the same area. I’ve never seen the same person twice, and I’m sure they want to be left alone. Not really enough to start a conversation.
Pretty sure an average person has no idea who that is or what that means. Hell, I don’t know who that is for my area from a few months ago.
That’s a bit of an assumption.
I’m not even sure what you mean by that. We have almost nothing in common in our actual lives apart from living in the same city and area.
I get that - what I don’t understand is how.
I can acknowledge it all I want, it doesn’t matter if most other people aren’t aware of this supposed community we share, or of other people in general.
Idk again on paper you say things that make sense and I could picture a village where neighbours talk to each other and greet each other and maybe even discuss their elected representatives or whatever if they’re tight-knit, but this just doesn’t match anything even close to my lived reality.
I do appreciate the explanation though, thanks.
Infynis@midwest.social 3 days ago
If your community is poorly connected, help out! Host a block party, set up a book swap, there’s all kinds of options. That’s a big focus of our local 50501 community in Michigan: restoring the bonds that have been worn away over the years by capitalists.
I strongly disagree with the majority of your last post though. It sounds like you’re determined to close your eyes and ears to the people around you
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
No, I’m not determined on anything you projecting fool, I am saying that based on your definitions of community and my experience it is others who are determined to close their eyes and ears from me and from each other.
And no, I’m not gonna go up to literal strangers that have never spoken to me or each other ever and tell them about hosting some sort of unsanctioned “party” because some guy said this will be good, or something, on the internet.
This doesn’t make me determined at “closing eyes and ears” to those around me, not acting based on the words of one guy explicitly only on the internet about something that suspiciously doesn’t seem to leave any traces of existing IRL makes me fucking sane.
Literally the only time I ever hear of this shite is on the internet, no one I know or have ever known as ever been part of or heard of this “community” drivel IRL and I’m sick and tired of hearing it without a decent explanation ngl .