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• callyral@pawb.social ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  i dont understand, please explain further. if blahaj mods have ignored misandry, that would be a bad thing. hate is generally regarded as bad, and misandry is hatred of men. therefore, misandry should be generally regarded as bad.

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  • blind3rdeye@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    That’s true on face value. The issue is that accusations of misandry are almost always unfounded, and only made as a way to deflect and to attack women. So when people start talking about misandry, that’s generally a red flag.

    It’s similar to how “all lives matter” is definitely a true and good value - but yet it is almost always said as a way to divert support away from vulnerable groups. So although the literal meaning is good, it is fair to assume that people saying it do not have good intentions.

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  • Irelephant@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    You are right, but what he is calling misandry is not misandry, and so many people like him think misandry is the bigger problem now.

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    • SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Misandry is a huge problem in the space.

      It’s why I couldn’t stand r/TwoXChromosomes anymore.

      The amount of people saying we should “kill all men” without being banned is insane, if someone typed the opposite they would instantly get dogpiled and removed.

      The blahaj admins have a record of supporting trolls and hateful people, just as long as they use the “right” language.

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      • Irelephant@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I feel like the whole supporting trolls thing is overblown.
        They said that you should still use someone’s pronouns, even if they are trolling, because it sets the precedent that its okay to ignore someone’s pronoun preference.

        Unless there is more that I missed.

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• AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  If women have to be misandristic, then I’m quite happy to exclude bigots

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  • Irelephant@lemm.ee ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Would you mind giving me some examples of the misandry? To see what you are talking about.

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