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• deegeese@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Thanks for clarifying.

  In general people don’t try to cultivate romantic interest, it needs to arise naturally from desire.

  If they are interested in someone romantically, then they pursue that person.

  Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

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  • throwawaysalami@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

    So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?

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    • deegeese@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      You gotta flirt first before you ask someone out.

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      • throwawaysalami@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Do you have to be friends first before you flirt? (I feel like a damn toddler or alien, asking these questions. 😅)

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