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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I mean, I’ll take what I can get (short term, long term). But casual sex would be best for me.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Sorta, I don’t really care that much for the relationship part. I mean, if I like the girl and she wants to make it official I’ll play ball, ya know.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  but it’s a place to start building a framework for understanding.

  It sure is! Thank you, this is honestly very helpful and intuitive! They way I got confused by the last comment was because I was like: “But I’m already talking friendly with them, that’s like the one thing I’m good at.”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  but then what is your actual challenge here?

  I don’t know, that’s a good question. How to convey that to the other person, I guess?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Okay, clearly you’re at the end of your rope here. And I thank you for sticking around for as long as you could.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  What about if you don’t want anything too serious?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Flirting is just friendly chatting.

  Wait, so how is that different with friends??

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Do you have to be friends first before you flirt? (I feel like a damn toddler or alien, asking these questions. 😅)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Ask out your crushes instead of trying to force a crush on someone you’re not attracted to.

  So you just, ask them out? Do you need to behave any differently as you would with a friend?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Have you ever experienced sexual attraction? Yeah, like a ton actually. Sorry I forgot to mention I do in fact develop feelings for people.

  Edit: I added it to the description now

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do people develop feelings for someone?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Okay I probably should’ve mentioned this. I most certainly do and can develop feelings for people but I just don’t know how to (for lack of a better word) make others see me for more than just a friend.

• How do people develop feelings for someone?
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