You’re absolutely correct, I had a similar experience
I played CS for roughly the same amount of time; my clan ranges from DMG to Global, but we had a rule that if you were in the clan, we’d 5-man with you regardless of your rank, so if you were Silver, you’d have a chance to rub elbows and learn strategies from the higher skilled players.
Then we got a Global, a girl named Moon.
Holy hell, it’s like people’s brains did a 180°, they were incredibly mean to her, for no reason, and eventually it came out that she was trans, and they bullied her even worse, out of the server.
I kicked everyone who bullied/demonized Moon for being trans; because at the end of the day, it was about being a honest human being, and not just a CS player/gamer.
RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Not really a gold star by the top player’s name for this, either. The comment alone leaves plenty of room to be interpreted as “girls should be easy to beat/poor gamers because they’re girls.”
MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
They wouldn’t say “you’re getting beaten by a girl” as much as they would respond to the guys losing their minds who happened to be below them on the scoreboard by saying things like “Why are you yelling at her she’s playing better than you are shut up”. Kinda way.
ThomasCrappersGhost@feddit.uk 1 week ago
There are definitely many competent players that will be like “haha you’re getting beaten by a girl” out there, though.
MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
Oh absolutely
roguetrick@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Nobody ever claimed pubstompers were good people. We pubstomp precisely because we’re not