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• AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Oof thats rough bur happy you go over that!

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• Contemporarium@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Can you walk me through how you came to that conclusion? I’m gay myself and have always known do I’m not sure how t something like this happens. What made you think you were into kids in the first place?

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  • Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Didn’t know that there were other options besides straight, gay, and bi. When I didn’t fall cleanly in one of those, I considered what other options were there. I was always unsure, but i went in a wrong direction full of guilt and depression, thinking if im not those, the only other option is…the worst. We don’t know what we don’t know.

    I never met an asexual, or a demisexual, or any other sexuality, up to this point. I may have heard the term asexual, but it was never described to me in a way that I could relate. It wasn’t until after RE-WATCHING Bojack Horseman that I actually did thorough research on the topic, and all the stars aligned. The first time watching, it just didn’t click, I knew there was an asexual character, but I didn’t connect that i could be asexual.

    I went 25 years not knowing I could be asexual. I’m 30 now. I only wish there was more representation as I grew up, but once I found out, I became the change I wanted to see, and started expressing it in my clothing, sharing with others, and helping clear up confusion.

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    • Contemporarium@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Thanks for sharing. I’m glad you found yourself and I’m sorry you thought that about yourself for so long. Can’t imagine

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    • GaMEChld@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Life’s a hell of a trip man. I was 34 before getting diagnosed with ADHD, which made my entire life suddenly made sense. Oh, turns out I have narcolepsy too, and I’ve been punished for my sleep patterns and issues my entire childhood. Who knew narcolepsy isn’t necessarily how it’s portrayed in movies?

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      • Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Either I have ADHD, or humans weren’t meant to do the same job with the same tasks for years at a time

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• Cryophilia@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  That shit makes no goddamn sense and you should feel bad for ever considering it.

  Handy flowchart for determining if you’re a pedophile

  Are you attracted to children?

  • yes: pedophile

  • no: not pedophile

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  • Oka@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Who hurt you?

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    • Cryophilia@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I have no patience for people who self-victimize.

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      • gajahmada@awful.systems ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I just searched for what cryophilic means, it didn’t mean what I think it means. I thought it was ice cube lol

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