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Comment on First Porn, Now Skin Cream? ‘Age Verification’ Bills Are Out of Control.

Kids are babied already but if 14 year olds can vote in party elections, and 16 year olds can consent to sexual intercourse with adults, then I don’t think restricting porn is our problem. Either kids can make decisions, or all of these laws need to align with each other more logically.

We have taken parents rights away to allow children to make decisions on their gender and name changes, yet we expect parent to be responsible for their actions like accessing porn.

I could not care less about whatever the final say is on age restrictions, but if there are gonna be rules, at least make them make sense you know? I also do not love that I have to verify my identity to use the internet. Look at the UK and how that’s working out there even without IDs. Talk about authoritarian control.

This stuff is the whole reason I switched to this platform.

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LeninsOvaries@lemmy.cafe ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

We have taken parents rights away to allow children to make decisions on their gender and name changes, yet we expect parent to be responsible for their actions like accessing porn.

That’s not a contradiction. Gender and name are about who the child is. Porn is about who the child wants to imagine having sex with. One of them, 99% of children are perfectly capable of making a good decision on. One of them can potentially be traumatising, and certainly isn’t absolutely necessary for a good life and healthy development.

That said, it’s not the government’s job to control it. An “I am 18” button and a lesson in health class are enough.

If porn sites must be legislated, here’s a better way: force them to display information to users on unrealistic depictions, the dangers of underage sex, and counselling resources.

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- Bzdalderon@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  We disagree on the foundation of your argument, and that’s okay. The end state, I can 100% get behind and that’s some common ground.
  
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cubism_pitta@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
I am actually in full agreement.

A header would put the setting on the device and only indicate “Minor” or “Not Minor” which would allow to restrict or allow porn without having to collect everyone’s PII just so they can crank their hog.

If you read previous things though such an indicator would put a lot more responsibility onto Social Media platforms to not show harmful content with minors. Today they get away with it because “TOS says only 18 year olds are allowed to us this service”

South Park kind of nailed the attitude en.wikipedia.org/…/South_Park_(Not_Suitable_for_C…

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- Bzdalderon@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
  But how would that header be verified?
  
  It has to be verified at some point by someone.
  
  That header could also easy be used to exploit children online. All I would need to do is a simple intercept to log headers.
  
  Either trust parents to do their jobs fully, and then hold them accountable, or draw a line at which point a child can be reasonably held responsible.
  
  If a 6 year old steals, it’s the 6 year olds fault. They’re tried differently, but they still know betters this isn’t any different.
  
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  - cubism_pitta@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago
    Sites and services today that we are considering forcing to collect PII (driver’s license) for age verification would be compelled to check the header as it would provide what these laws are chasing in a way more respectful towards privacy
    
    As far as exploiting children online. My point has been clear that is already happening, TikTok, Youtube, Instagram ALL exploit children online today. They do not face consequences because they can hide behind their TOS this would put responsibility with regards to not breaking our already existing laws back into their hands
    
    I trust parets. I have kids myself the plethora of tools and systems available to invade you kids’ privacy is great… and those are also even way worse than a header (especially when you consider what they do to work)
    
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