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PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 month agoI clarified I called him out for
Stop.
I pretty much said it already. There’s an edit up there with some additional context. The deadline was self-imposed and you don’t need to call him out for a god damned thing.
solidheron@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yeah now I have to explain why I called him out to you because you don’t understand that guess you’re trying to convince me on something I did is wrong without context with “don’t need”. I’m willing to tell the story but no one wants to hear it
PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 month ago
Because it literally doesn’t matter. As soon as the story starts with “I called him out a lot for making no progress,” the issue is you.
solidheron@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’ll hear you out can you explain with only the context I’ve given you btw I only told two people the entire story. Why calling him out is the issue. Let’s put you on the spot and watch you crumble
PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 1 month ago
Are you asking me to explain why chasing after someone who’s writing a bunch of software for you for free, because they didn’t meet your expectations, to the point that they block you, is wrong?
Like I say, I honestly think you just need to grow up a certain amount before you interact directly with people who develop fedi software, because you clearly just think this is okay and are genuinely surprised at the unanimous crowd of people telling you that it is not.
Dan, like a lot of people, is a human being. He’s allowed to miss deadlines or make angry posts on social media that he then feels bad about after. You’re not allowed to chase after him and treat him like you’re in some kind of position to be judging how well he’s performing. I have stopped working on projects before, because of people interacting with me in a way that rubbed me the wrong way and I just didn’t feel like subjecting myself to it. Having ingrates like you squalling at the fedi developers about how they need them to start meeting all the deadlines or they’re going to “call them out a lot” is going to drive people away from developing free software. Don’t do that. I keep telling you: I do not care about the further context. You are already wrong, when you are demanding anything at all in the manner that you’ve described.
actionjbone@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Calling him out his criticizing him. Full stop.
I don’t even know who he is, and I can tell he isn’t the issue.
You seem unable to recognize that you are not owed anything.
Anything he said is irrelevant.