Yeah that’s a decent way to start. Giving compliments is a great way to flirt! Saying something like “That was a great conversation, you’re easy to talk to” might even be a bit more flirty without putting yourself that much further out.
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FatTony@lemm.ee 1 week ago“Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”
But if I sign it off like this. That would be a pretty clear subliminal message, right?
pennomi@lemmy.world 1 week ago
kat@orbi.camp 1 week ago
Not really, I would take it at face value. Unless the person sent some really strong signals. And even then I would just do the conclusion that requires the least assumptions, which is just friend vibes.
But you can still be explicit afte the fact tho. I get is hard tho, since you have to be pretty vulnerable.
saltesc@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Eh, just say, “I’m trying to flirt with you. How’s it doing?”
And if she laughs, you’re in. If she does squirmy-squirm face, “Well, I had to try. Now let’s enjoy this awkward silence together.” And stare at the ground silently, but for no more than three seconds.
kat@orbi.camp 1 week ago
Never more than 3 seconds. Listen up guys, most important part!
saltesc@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Well, then it actually is awkward.