FatTony
@FatTony@lemm.ee
- Comment on Amazon Boycot March 7-14th | No Purchases. Its time to disrupt the system. 1 day ago:
What are you doing? Never buying anything at all from Amazon, ever.
- Comment on Amazon Boycot March 7-14th | No Purchases. Its time to disrupt the system. 2 days ago:
Ooooooh 7 whole days??? That’ll teach 'em. What is this, Whale Wars?
- Comment on Where is the line between being yourself and trying to change? 2 weeks ago:
I think, I’m somewhere in the middle of all that. I’m fine with flirting, I’m more or less indifferent about it. But if it wasn’t as important as people say it is, I don’t think I would do it, just to be safe.
- Submitted 2 weeks ago to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world | 7 comments
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 2 weeks ago:
But I’m not in a relationship?
- Comment on How do you express romantic interest in someone? 2 weeks ago:
Thank you! That was very thorough and clear.
- Submitted 2 weeks ago to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world | 16 comments
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
Of course you still need to find a way to show interest
Dumb question maybe. But do you have any tips on how to do that?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
Damn, that’s without a doubt a perfect synopsis of what’s going on here. Seriously, I’m impressed.
“What difference would the answer make?”
If the answer is: “Yes, it’s very important.” Then I know what to improve. If the answer is something along the lines of: “The important part is the connection between the two parties.” Then I don’t know what to do, to be honest.
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
Romantic/sexual banter?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
I get the whole “Just the be yourself” message. But right now things just aren’t moving. Like, at all. And I do have plenty of hobbies. Even meeting women is genuinely not a problem for me. So I’m kind of stuck between the being myself and changing strategies. To be honest with you. If being myself means I don’t ever find someone, which over the years have quite clearly proven to be the case. Then I say: “Fuck being myself.”
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
And I usually don’t have any ulterior motives.
Well I for one usually do have said ulterior motives (I want to see them romantically). Shouldn’t I then be a bit more (flirtatiously) direct with them?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
“Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”
But if I sign it off like this. That would be a pretty clear subliminal message, right?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
If you say “Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”
When given chance, this is basically the way I go about it. Just a quick on-the-side question: How quickly do you usually suggest something like that?
And bordering on what I’d call flirting.
What would you call flirting?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
I am not a great active flirter, but I do know that my words and body language will do the heavy lifting, unconsciously.
Perhaps you’re in the same boat?
I would say, yes. However, it has been somewhat of a fruitless endeavour for me. (rightly or wrongly so)
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
But how are they supposed to find out if it’s just a nice conversation, or if I want to meet them again, or if I want to go on a date with them? If I’m having a friendly chat with someone and I suggest we meet again in a different setting, wouldn’t that be a clear enough sign?
- Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene? 3 weeks ago:
Flirting is part of the process
Okay and how big (would you say) is that part?
It’s also a pretty broad term.
Would you say that talking amicably, counts as flirting?
- Submitted 3 weeks ago to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world | 55 comments
- Comment on YOU. 9 months ago:
you
- Comment on YOU. 9 months ago:
you
- Comment on i hate this meme 9 months ago:
Yeah, I think I get it now :D
- Comment on i hate this meme 9 months ago:
I’m sorry but I still don’t get it :(
- Comment on Divide and rule 11 months ago:
I feel like the artists at the beginning wanted to make this primarily medieval themed. But then realisied “Oh yeah, new and stuff is a a thing.” and then just added laptops and antenna’s
- Comment on Every time 1 year ago:
Even the weight is monitored?
- Comment on ‘Reddit can survive without search’: company reportedly threatens to block Google 1 year ago:
This isn’t coping. This is cocaing.
- Comment on And now Bezos is trying to inserts ads everywhere 1 year ago:
In fact you should even pirate piracy. Next time steal someone else’s torrent and seed that instead!
Note: Yes, I do realise ;)
