Comment on I never realized this
Mickey7@lemmy.world 3 months agoScratching my head trying to figure out how an undeniale fact is somehow a condemnation of women.
Comment on I never realized this
Mickey7@lemmy.world 3 months agoScratching my head trying to figure out how an undeniale fact is somehow a condemnation of women.
shneancy@lemmy.world 3 months ago
pointing out how someone’s mother’s last name is just their grandfather’s last name ignores the point the person was trying to make in favour of going “well akschually”.
a woman who feels more connected with her mother and prefers her last name over her father’s last name has made that decision based on her emotions associated with her family relationships. And it was a choice she had to make against the default way surnames are given.
people rarely do things like going through lengthy legal processes to get the necessary paperwork to change your last name for shit and giggles. Instead of “well askchanelyling” people’s choices, think a bit on why they made that particular choice, or you could also ask them