Comment on Conversations like this are why I want more people, especially "normies", in the Fediverse

Blaze@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• Cryophilia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  It’s not just about the communities. We push communities a lot, and we do need more communities. But fundamentally we need a lot more PEOPLE.

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  • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Exactly! Yes!

    I get downvoted everytime I point out that a healthy network comes with users. Lots of users. Users of all kinds. Users you don’t agree with. Users you do agree with. I said that the userbase of threads being on Lemmy would be a culture clash, but it would be a sign of a growing fediverse concept.

    Everyone else says if the threads users federated with Lemmy, they would personally block the instance. Which just shows how much of a bubble the people here want to live in.

    I work at an airport. You will never see a more diverse group of people from a bigger selection of places than at an international airport. I don’t agree with all of them. I don’t agree with the majority of them. But I can converse with them. I can make small talk for 10 minutes.

    I treat the fediverse as I treat the real world. I wouldn’t look at these people and say “You’re banished from my existence for having conflicting politic or religious beliefs! Begone from my presence! You do not deserve to exist in my world!”

    But thats how people here treat “outsiders” or “normies”.

    I want the fediverse concept to grow. I want the idea of a concept that’s immune to corporate ownership by design to BE normalized.

    Because right now, it’s a niche interest that 98% of people have never heard of. Corporations want to keep it that way…if they’ve even heard of the Fediverse. They might to be too busy exploiting labor, and polluting the planet with their private jets and resource sucking plants located in places that already have water shortages.

    Yes I’m talking to you Nestle, and you Starbucks CEO. I don’t know how this comment turned into a rant against them specifically, but fuck Nestle, and fuck Starbucks.

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    • Flamekebab@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Perhaps it's just me having different priorities, but I have no interest in making small talk with lots of people. There's plenty of spaces for that already whilst the spaces for enthusiasts have been sacrificed to the general public.

      I'm not arguing this specifically about Lemmy, or trying to suggest policy, I'm just chipping in that there's at least something to be said for not trying to make all social spaces for all people.

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      • rglullis@communick.news ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        The idea is not to have to talk with everyone in the circle, but to have enough people to create a long tail of niche interests.

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      • Cryophilia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Small talk is important. It leads to big talk.

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    • OpenStars@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      But please remember that in order to enjoy such diversity of opinions as you mentioned... we *must* become intolerant.

      To the intolerant. There is no faster way to shut down conversations than to allow bullies to dominate everything within their reach.

      So long as conversations can be kept "fun", there will naturally be many more to follow, but when they cross the line, then fun-time is over and the people go home. Unfortunately, modding efforts are in short supply here - not as limiting as content creation, but still a constraining factor.

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  • Blaze@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Feel free to join us on old.reddit.com/r/RedditAlternatives/ to promote Lemmy (most of the other subs ban it)

    I was just pointing that with 44k monthly active users, interesting conversations are already happening. A few of them are reposted on !bestoflemmy@lemmy.world , we could probably do a better job to repost them there more

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    • Cryophilia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I got shadowbanned from reddit before even making a single post.

      I’ve said it before, I like reddit users but I hate reddit the company.

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  • Alice@hilariouschaos.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Do you invite ppl ?

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    • Cryophilia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I got shadowbanned from reddit before even making a single post. I can read but not interact. Fuckers.

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