Zagam

@Zagam@lemmy.blahaj.zone

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do you get over a breakup with someone who was (and is) also a very close friend?⁩ ⁨⁨15⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  As long as you were true to yourself and didn’t pretend to be someone else, you did nothing wrong. All you can ever do is be honest with the people you love. It’s up to them to decide if they want to be with you (the same way you get to decide if you want to be with them). It sounds like you tried and she just didn’t want to be with you. I don’t mean that in a cruel way. It’s just how things sometimes go.

  Sometimes people grow apart. Time will heal, yes but for now, you’re grieving. You lost a friend. It will take time to let that go and for you to move on.

  Frankly, it sounds like she meant more to you than you did to her. That’s her loss. Stand tall, be proud of yourself that you could give yourself to someone, and that you were honest and open. Go and do that again and again until you find someone that is honest enough with themselves to be as vulnerable with you as you are them.

  Don’t t think of this as a failure or defeat. Think of it as part of a process. Turn the page and start a new chapter.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨His last pickup rolled over.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  And Sublime did a song about playing the same song twice.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What is the cutoff distance when you point and say [thing] is "here" or [thing] is "there"?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  If I can hit it by softly lobbing a rock at it, it’s here. Farther than that but I can still ull see it, it’s there. Out of sight it’s over there somewhere.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨world changes so fast⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m not sure this is really from 1955. The Adidas the dude on the left has on is showing a style of outsole that, while could be found in the early and mid '50s, wasn’t mass-produced until 1959 or even 1960. He’d have to have been an Adidas rep or known someone really high up in the company. And frankly I doubt that is the case here. He would have to have either been living in Germany or close to someone that was. And if the later is the case, international shipping would have been rather difficult. And while I’m not decrying his stylistic choices of dress, I am skeptical that a high ranking Adidas professional would have been accepted if this were the look they came to work with.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨YSK that after leaving power, Margaret Thatcher became a lobbyist for tobacco companies⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  But after that she died. Not a total wash, but it was the best thing she ever did.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What are some good cooperative shooters? Hidden gems?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah. My kids and I play this together. It’s a lot of fun. It’s not as thinky as some other games but for a quick hour or two, it’s a blast.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Over a hundred thousand Dune Awakening players got swallowed by the sandworm | Massively Overpowered⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Gotta earn that crysknife dude.