beirdobaggins

@beirdobaggins@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The terms "Mother's Day" and "Father's Day" is very anxiety-inducing for people who have been abused/neglected as a child.⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  yep bullshit holidays.

  I’m a dad and I love spending time with my kids. I absolutely don’t want them to ever feel obligated to hang out with me or buy me a card or present or anything because of some bullshit holiday.

  My wife is on all the normal social media, insta, Facebook and such, and has such high expectations for mothers day because it seems to have become some sort of requirement to make a post bragging about what your family did for you on mother’s day.

  I hate it all so much.

  I spend time with the people I love and I frequently tell them how much I love them and do things to demonstrate it too.

  mother’s day, father’s day, valentine’s day and Christmas gift giving expectations can all go fuck right off.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Convert Existing Oracle Cloud instance from Ubuntu to Debian⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Interesting. I just imported a Debian cloud image.