mranachi

@mranachi@aussie.zone

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  You’re taking the wrong path, I see some things that you may not be considering.

  Friendships don’t need to be defined by beginnings and ends. The gentlest way to cool a friendship is to spend less time with them.

  Spending time within someone you find attractive doesn’t screw with your psyche. An internal cycle of hope and rejection does.

  She already rejected you, you said it in the post. ‘Its not the right time’ is not an invitation to wait, it’s a gentle no (and it’s much worse approach than just saying no). Accept it and move on. If your thoughts wander to oh but maybe we could be together if I do something - remind yourself she said no. If you need further clarification ask again.

  Threatening to end the friendship for a romantic relationship has zero good outcomes. If you can’t handle the rejection or don’t want to be her friend, then stop making time to see her. The only reason to explain that it is ‘because you want more’, is the thought that it will change her mind - remember emotional manipulation is gross and rapey but don’t worry you haven’t done it yet. Thinking about things isn’t doing them.

  Also, you sound like a young man, so I just want to affirm that the drive to have sex can be wild strong, and make clear thinking hard. It’s okay, just remember you don’t want be with someone who you can get to agree to a relationship with you, you want to be with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you. Everyone is worth that much.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Where will my vote go?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  That’s a rose tinted glasses now l view on the local impact a federal candidate has, vs the impact of the elected government.

  Ignore the word punish. If you don’t like lib/nat wreck and sell plans, don’t vote national no matter what promise they makes to the electorate - it’s highly unlikely they have the ability to hold up their end of the bargain as it’ll be a party decision.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨If you are “deemed not to be doing what you are told you will suddenly find out missiles won’t fire and planes won’t fly⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Aukus is dead

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Could Musk's unpopularity in Australia impact the election?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Perhaps I am delusional, but I still hope that we are contrary and proud enough of a country to take whatever America can dish out to not be publicly humiliated into submission.

  Obviously there are a multiple of less public submissions we’ve made over the last century, but I still have hope we can turn it around.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Tiny pp⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Look, I don’t want to disagree with your point… But I can’t stand by as you suggest that we evolved from cave men… We may have created civilisations, but we’ve not evolved into a civilized creature… We’re still as uncooked as were 60k years ago.