Cris_Color
@Cris_Color@lemmy.world
Hello, my name is Cris. :)
- Comment on GitLab abandons federation plans! 7 hours ago:
Awww :(
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 8 hours ago:
Yeah, I guess social media has, in effort to build maximum engagement, really shaped a lot of people’s way of engaging with others in deeply toxic ways that will be very hard to untangle and change now that the social forces that teach us how to act towards one another have been hijacked for monetary gain, and people have spent so much time exposed to that :(
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, it gave me some new things to think about, and maybe it will help me set aside my frustration and remember my empathy when dealing with those people, at least more often. Because if I want to enact change I also need to build a critical mass of people who share my perspective.
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 11 hours ago:
I can appreciate how twisted and emotionally charged the labels have become. As a queer(-ish, it’s complicated) person in the US, it is not uncommon for right wing spaces on reddit to offhandedly describe me and all the people I care about as groomers. Thats not a good faith discussion of whether the way that I want to see problems solved is productive, it’s just dehumanizing people because they’re minorities.
I don’t want to be around that. I think it is important to have conversations with people you don’t agree with, and I still have very little emotional capacity to engage with people that far away from me in terms of what’s considered an acceptable way to engage with other humans.
I don’t wish them death and dismemberment or for them to face violent retribution (and before people take issue with that, that would radicalize people and harm every single cause I care about, making every problem I’m facing worse. Even just purely pragmatically that’s a horrible way to solve our problems like 99% of the time), but I don’t wish to share space with them, I don’t have that in me.
The left does absolutely have an issue with calling anyone we dont like a Nazi, which is a painful problem to confront due to the fact that our government is descending into outright fascism, and it is now infinitely harder to have a conversation about the fact that this is what fascism looks like now that the word has been so diluted as to be almost meaningless. It essentially just conveys “I really really really don’t like that person” at this point, which is a big difference from “this person is framing minorities as responsible for all that ails society to gain power while stripping us of our freedoms and amassing personal power and currying favor with billionaires by selling them our institutions at all or our expense”
I’m curious, how did both the left and right get fucked in the recent election? I’m pretty much entirely unfamiliar with Australian politics save for a couple friendly jordies videos
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 11 hours ago:
Ya love to hear it :)
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 11 hours ago:
I agree. Its very frustrating, as someone who cares deeply about trying to do anything I can to find a future for myself in the increasingly broken status quo the US is devolving into (and has been in for a long time, albiet to a lesser extreme)
But don’t you worry, they’ll tell themselves the whole while that they’re the righteous one for advocating wanton violence. I want off this ride :(
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 14 hours ago:
I can certainly see why that would be frustrating. I’m surprised I’d not heard of your project before- does it have a name or a github? If it does and I see folks talking about how we can improve onboarding or grow the fediverse it’d be nice to be able to mention it to them
I think I’m subbed to fedibridge- have you posted about it there? I feel like admins may be kinda swamped and it might need traction with users who want to see things grow in order to cut through the noise and have it be a significant enough priority for any admins. There may also be an issue of them knowing that making onboarding from reddit significantly easier, if successful might mean putting a lot more strain on themselves and their instance
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 14 hours ago:
Very well put, that’s my perception too
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 14 hours ago:
Yeah we do have a lot of people who feel it’s more important to demonstrate their anger than to figure out what people could do to improve the problems.
Worse still, a lot of people seem to have convinced themselves that whatever makes it most clear they’re angry and hurts the people they disagree with the most is actually what’s most productive. The anger about the state of things, particularly in the US is entirely valid. The self-justification of behaviours that burn bridges and radicalize more people is not.
If you want to implement any kind of solution you do, necessarily have to have a critical mass of people who agree with you, and you cannot build that by antagonizing anyone who doesn’t already share your exact flavour of left wing ideology, and acting in a way that reflects poorly on your ideology to everyone except people who already agree with you
Very rarely is anyone willing to confront that violence as a means to an end, pragmatically, has enormous costs, and that employing it just because you’re (justifiably) angry, is almost always detrimental to the exact abouts you’re mad about
(Sorry, I know I kinda went off track from exactly what you were talking about, this is just a closely related huge frustration of mine)
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 15 hours ago:
I am broadly in favor of growing the Fediverse, but I am also of the belief that most of the ways that people thing that should be done, are potentially more counter productive than productive
For users, most people think of growing Lemmy as evangelizing. Personally I think that’s almost always experienced as preachy and antagonistic. The real work of making the fediverse competive is the developers maintainers and hosters, and if we as users want the fediverse to grow I think the biggest thing we can do is be a part of making this a good place to be.
Its by creating a culture that when people show up and try things out on a whim, they decide to stay. It certainly helps for people to hear about the Fediverse, but if that’s a accomplished through means that make people frustrated and hostile towards us, I think we’ve accomplished more harm than good.
I deeply miss the thriving small niche communities of reddit, and us not being able to sustain that is 100% down to not having enough users, but I see participating in a way that makes it worth being here as the biggest thing I can do to support the fediverse
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 15 hours ago:
Always lovely to see you too blaze, hope you’re doing well ☺️
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 15 hours ago:
I mean everyone already has platforms they’re largely comfortable with and fediverse platforms are less accessible, smaller, and usually clones of existing formats. The primary place we compete is on not being total dogshit, so when people can forget that their comfortable platforms are dogshit, it doesn’t surprise me that people wouldn’t be going out of their way to venture out into a new unfamiliar thing, with a different culture and much smaller userbase 🤷♂️
I’m happy to be here regardless of whether we’re growing personally. In spite of Lemmy’s challenges I enjoy it here, and that’s enough for me.
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 15 hours ago:
A lot of right-wing beliefs have become so extreme that I am frankly happy to not be around them, regardless of how important I feel it is to avoid echo chambers (very). Its one thing to want to be able to have conversations with people you disagree with even though it’s challenging, it’s another thing to constantly have to contend with people who would like to debate whether you’re a human and deserve basic human dignity because you’re a minority.
But I would appreciate if we could at least manage not to attack other left wing folks over not being left wing enough, or over what methods are a productive way to solve the problems we’re facing.
It’s kind of just a microcosm of the infighting and purity testing of the left more broadly (at least in America, I have no idea how things are with the culture of leftwing communities or voices in Europe or the rest of the world), but it still sucks and I’d like to hope we can find a way to do better.
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 15 hours ago:
Wow… I wouldn’t have expected that
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 18 hours ago:
It kinda seems like historically, growth has been driven by exoduses from larger platforms. Right now there’s not any huge things going on on other platforms that piss people off and make them wanna leave but like, twitter, reddit and meta seem really good at finding shitty thing to do, so I’d kinda expect growth to just pick back up whenever the next outrage happens 🤷♂️
- Comment on Is the Fediverse stalling? 18 hours ago:
Bluesky blew itself up? What happened to bluesky?
- Comment on Japan updates ‘mega quake’ preparedness plan 1 day ago:
Entirely unrelated to the article but that’s a nifty looking table and chair
- Comment on Hypothesis: Modern retro-inspired indies are much more enjoyable than the retro games themselves 4 days ago:
I feel like I’ve also heard this discussion from a friend regarding neon genesis evangelion, which I still haven’t seen
- Comment on Look at my french popsicle! 1 week ago:
:(((
- Comment on Last year China generated almost 3 times as much solar power as the EU did, and it's close to overtaking all OECD countries put together (whose combined population is 1.38 billion people) 1 week ago:
Yeah I think by “source” they just mean they’re just giving credit to the bsky post they got the graph from, the data seems to be from a green energy transition thinktank. No idea if you’d put more stock in ember-energy.org, so make of that what you will 🤷♂️
- Comment on One gamer got so tired of waiting for Valve, he made his own 'Steam Controller 2' out of Steam Deck parts, and it even splits in half like Switch Joy-Cons 1 week ago:
Thanks!
- Comment on Lights out 1 week ago:
If you pull them down at an angle you can sometimes get a really good launch towards someone :)
- Comment on ! Mastodon new ToS from July 1has a binding abbreviation wave !!r 2 weeks ago:
Thank you very much for the context, that makes a lot of sense and I’m glad this info and be part of the discussion here :)
- Comment on Mastodon updates terms of service to ban AI model training on user data 2 weeks ago:
I agree, but I’m glad they did it anyway.
- Comment on PeerTube just reached its final goal for the mobile app fundraiser - 75k € - with a few hours to spare! 2 weeks ago:
That’s unfortunate to hear, I haven’t really used loops at all but I hope they can figure it out to a point of adequacy
- Comment on PeerTube just reached its final goal for the mobile app fundraiser - 75k € - with a few hours to spare! 2 weeks ago:
Yeah, if it wants to actually compete with YouTube it would have to have monetization. I’ve talked about that on Lemmy before, I agree.
But at least with a good algorithm it could be like old youtube where folks can speak to the world and share things in video format
- Comment on PeerTube just reached its final goal for the mobile app fundraiser - 75k € - with a few hours to spare! 2 weeks ago:
I also feel like the algorithm is kinda brutal. Even if there’s good stuff I’m not sure I’d ever really find it
- Comment on Which Lemmy instances use Photon? 2 weeks ago:
Just wanna stop and say open source is cool, neat to see what instances have what interfaces :)
- Comment on It's that time of the decade where we can bring out this meme 2 weeks ago:
This is an actually top tier meme, thank you for blessing my feed with this masterpiece
- Comment on matrix is cooked 2 weeks ago:
Man, that’s depressing, thanks for sharing, that was well worth the read
- Comment on Protip: 2 weeks ago:
Toph-core