dohpaz42
@dohpaz42@lemmy.world
Web Developer by day, and aspiring Swift developer at night.
- Comment on Moderators banning/censoring people arent oppressors violating your rights; they are customer service representatives curating the space for their intended costomers. All this to say, I see Karen. 2 weeks ago:
Happy cake day!
- Comment on What's the deal with male loneliness? 2 weeks ago:
For decades it has been ingrained in men that they are to be held to a very specific standard. Men don’t cry, men are strong, men have to take care of everyone else, stop your whining, I’ll give you something to cry about, be the alpha male, that’s “gay”, strength, weakness, and so on.
My father, and grandfather, both grew up with a code of silence. Feelings weren’t talked about, but relayed through their wives; except anger. That was given directly through corporal punishment (hand or belt).
I was always “emotional” growing up. I cried “like a baby” over “nothing”. No one ever came to check on me, or console me, during any of my “fits”. In fact, there were times I was ridiculed for it (sometimes by family members).
When I was 19 my grandmother died. I was really close with her; she was the only one who ever came to my aid and defended me. It tore me up so bad I could barely talk without breaking down. I was told multiple times that I shouldn’t be so upset, and that I was overreacting (by my family). Everything came to a head when all at once my cousins, aunts, uncles, and even brother yelled at me because I was being selfish and unreasonable, and insensitive to my grandfather because “he just lost his wife”.
Oh, and apologies are for “pussies”.
Anyway, it’s not really about me. I wanted to paint a picture for you as to why I’m lonely. Do with that what you will.
- Comment on Moderators banning/censoring people arent oppressors violating your rights; they are customer service representatives curating the space for their intended costomers. All this to say, I see Karen. 2 weeks ago:
In my personal experience, the people I see posting to !modabuse@lemmy.sdf.org deserved the actions the mods took, and are looking to whine to someone.
- Comment on Brazil Bans X from Using Children to Power Its AI 4 weeks ago:
I think Brazil needs to explain themselves.
- Comment on duhh 1 month ago:
Wind is most certainly made to be broken. Especially after a hearty meal.
- Comment on ugh i wish 1 month ago:
I bet the solution is so fast, it’s past your eyes before you know it.
- Comment on BIOMES 2 months ago:
Takes “draining the swamp” to a whole new (medical) level.
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- Comment on Coming on Lemmy and complaining because there are too many Linux users is like going in to a brothel and complaining that there are too many hookers 2 months ago:
You see, little @JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee, when a man loves a woman…. Birds…. Bees…. yada yada yada…. You get a baby brother or sister.
- Comment on Coming on Lemmy and complaining because there are too many Linux users is like going in to a brothel and complaining that there are too many hookers 2 months ago:
I hope not given how out of date it’s be by now.
- Comment on Everything on credit 2 months ago:
It’s even more disturbing that Instacart does this for groceries. By the time you pay off one grocery order, you’ve probably already racked up three more grocery orders. If those were financed, then you’re really screwed.
- Comment on Inside the U.S. Government-Bought Tool That Can Track Phones at Abortion Clinics 2 months ago:
We’re kind of seeing that with those private jet trackers. But that’s not changing anything except getting those accounts banned from social media.
- Comment on Get good. 2 months ago:
I baby talked my kids (now it’s Brain Rot). I also talk to them like an adult. I’ve always encouraged them to ask questions when they don’t understand something. My 9-year-old is not shy about stopping mid-conversation and asking what a word or phrase means.
- Comment on Inside the U.S. Government-Bought Tool That Can Track Phones at Abortion Clinics 2 months ago:
This should be illegal. There is absolutely no good reason this should be available to anybody. It should also be considered unconstitutional; if one of those dots is a person, whether you directly know who the person is or not, it should violate the right to privacy and the right of illegal search and seizure — no questions asked.
- Comment on Inside the U.S. Government-Bought Tool That Can Track Phones at Abortion Clinics 2 months ago:
Because right now’s political climate is about how abortion is being billed en masse as murder, and people are having to go to other states to get abortions, so the states that bill abortion as murder want to be able to prosecute the women. So there are a lot of fears that states will be tracking women through tools like this, and it turns out the fearful were correct.
- Comment on i stare it in the face every goddamn day 2 months ago:
I see you’ve never donated before. You should. It saves lives.
- Comment on Comic Sans Got the Last Laugh 2 months ago:
Let’s bring back those animated gifs (mailbox and under construction) from the 90s. That’ll get everyone riled back up again.
- Comment on Please Don’t Make Me Download Another App | Our phones are being overrun 3 months ago:
You know what else is overrun? Paywalls or other “requirements” where I need to signup and/or pay to access something that should be free.
Don’t get me started on those fulls term ad interstitials that force me to watch an ad I’m not interested in before I can continue either.
Let’s face it, the Internet today fucking sucks and it’s partly to do with these so-called news outlets like the Atlantic.
I miss the days when barely anyone heard of the web. Sure, it wasn’t as feature rich, but then again, those features are overly abused in the name of capitalism anyway. It’s like those strip malls that have nothing but shitty restaurants, nail salons, and tax preparers. Gone are the days of fun stores like hobby shops, comic book stores, local mom & pop toy stores.
They just sucked the fun out of it all. 😡
- Comment on Should i be giving a shit about my posture? 3 months ago:
Yes. And also, you should be doing stretching exercises.
- Comment on Vinegar 3 months ago:
Feet are not supposed to smell like vinegar. You may need to give your feet some extra tlc if they do. If that doesn’t work, talk to your doc.
- Comment on Vinegar 3 months ago:
Instructions unclear: still depressed and smell like vinegar.
- Comment on Risky Buisness 3 months ago:
Her name is
Robert PaulsonHaliey Welch. - Comment on Intergalactic Planatary 3 months ago:
But is it 42.0 light years away?
- Comment on What prevents Linux from being installed on mobile devices? 3 months ago:
I really shouldn’t feed the trolls, but eh, I’m learning a lot rebuking you, so maybe somebody else can benefit from your ignorance as well:
GrapheneOS has official production support for the following devices:
- Pixel 9 Pro Fold (comet)
- Pixel 9 Pro XL (komodo)
- Pixel 9 Pro (caiman)
- Pixel 9 (tokay)
- Pixel 8a (akita)
- Pixel 8 Pro (husky)
- Pixel 8 (shiba)
- Pixel Fold (felix)
- Pixel Tablet (tangorpro)
- Pixel 7a (lynx)
- Pixel 7 Pro (cheetah)
- Pixel 7 (panther)
- Pixel 6a (bluejay)
- Pixel 6 Pro (raven)
- Pixel 6 (oriole) Source
😊
- Comment on What prevents Linux from being installed on mobile devices? 3 months ago:
I didn’t miss the point. Maybe you’re conflating a distribution with an operating system. But, since you brought it up:
My point is that — at least in my eyes — open source is not synonymous with one single project. Do with that what you will.
- Comment on What prevents Linux from being installed on mobile devices? 3 months ago:
FYI, Android is open source.
- Comment on What prevents Linux from being installed on mobile devices? 3 months ago:
Its like saying MAC is UNIX, technically yes but not really
macOS is UNIX-based. Period. In fact, “[s]tarting with Leopard, macOS has been certified as compatible with the Single UNIX Specification version 3 (SUSv3).” Source
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
Could you mean network radios?
- Comment on Jony Ive confirms he’s working with Sam Altman on a secret project 3 months ago:
Whatever it is, I’ll bet it’ll be 3 nanometers thinner than last year’s model!
- Comment on Ol switcharoo 3 months ago:
I love how the sizes of the sun, moon, and earth are the same.