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Alex and his bestie 😭

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Submitted ⁨⁨6⁊ ⁨hours⁊ ago⁊ by ⁨PugJesus@piefed.social⁊ to ⁨historymemes@piefed.social⁊

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  • noname_yet2077@lemmy.world ⁨4⁊ ⁨hours⁊ ago

    Oh yeah, It really shows the color

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  • PugJesus@piefed.social ⁨6⁊ ⁨hours⁊ ago

    Explanation: Alexander the Great was notably very close with one of his bodyguards, Hephaestion. Hephaestion was Alexander’s right-hand man, serving as his second-in-command and lifelong friend, having been with Alexander since Alexander’s teenage years. In all matters, from affairs of state to personal secrets, Hephaestion was the man Alexander trusted most, and the trust was apparently mutual.

    There are also a number of… curious hints as to what could have been a more intimate relationship than close friendship, including the account of Alexander and Hephaestion identifying themselves with the mythology figures of Achilles and Patrocles (both famously close friends in the Iliad and, in Greek interpretations of Alexander’s period, lovers) and running a foot-race naked to celebrate. In fact, let me quote from wiki for a few choice bits…

    As Robin Lane Fox says, “descendants of the Dorians were considered and even expected to be openly homosexual, especially among their ruling class, and the Macedonian kings had long insisted on their pure Dorian ancestry”.[69] This was no fashionable affectation; this was something that belonged at the heart of what it was to be Dorian, and therefore Macedonian, and had more in common with the Theban Sacred Band than with Athens.[70] Lucian, writing in his book On Slips of the Tongue, describes an occasion when Hephaestion’s conversation one morning implied that he had been in Alexander’s tent all night,[71] and Plutarch describes the intimacy between them when he tells how Hephaestion was in the habit of reading Alexander’s letters with him, and of a time when he showed that the contents of a letter were to be kept secret by touching his ring to Hephaestion’s lips.[72] There also exists a letter, spuriously attributed to Diogenes of Sinope, heavily hinting at Alexander’s yielding to “Hephaestion’s thighs”.[73]

    No other circumstance shows better the nature and length of their relationship than Alexander’s overwhelming grief at Hephaestion’s death. As Andrew Chugg says, “it is surely incredible that Alexander’s reaction to Hephaestion’s death could indicate anything other than the closest relationship imaginable”.[74] The many and varied ways, both spontaneous and planned, by which Alexander poured out his grief are detailed below. In the context of the nature of their relationship however, one stands out as remarkable. Arrian says that Alexander “flung himself on the body of his friend and lay there nearly all day long in tears, and refused to be parted from him until he was dragged away by force by his Companions”.[75]

    When Hephaestion died, Alexander starved himself for three days, had Hephaestion’s doctor hanged (for not saving him), demolished the walls of several nearby cities, and burned the temple of the god of healing to the ground.

    Just bestie things ✨

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