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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/RegisterSad343 on 2023-08-12 04:24:35.

I (24f) live with my boyfriend (27m) in a 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom apartment. We have been together for a long time. Understandably, he doesn’t like me using the bathroom in front of him as he finds it gross, which I can understand. I never go to the bathroom in front of him to respect his boundaries. This morning he was showering and I had to go number 2… I was trying to hold it but as 15 minutes go by, I was cramping/sweating and in dire need to go to the bathroom. I walked in and said “Sorry, I cant hold it” … he got extremely angry with me and went off about poop molecules being in his air as he got out of the shower. He yelled at me and said im an adult and i could have held it longer… Im at a loss for words on this as he seems I am very much in the wrong and I believe I had a natural bodily function at a poor time. He wont back down on his stance and neither will I … So, am i the assholes for pooping while my bf was showering?