Comment on There Is No Male Loneliness Crisis. What’s Actually Happening Is So Much Darker.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 days agoso the issue isn’t your hobbies, it’s being poor.
Comment on There Is No Male Loneliness Crisis. What’s Actually Happening Is So Much Darker.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 days agoso the issue isn’t your hobbies, it’s being poor.
If I had the money, I don’t think frequenting conventions would make me less lonely. You got to spend hours traveling to the city to meet other travelers. I’m thinking meeting like minded people where I live, with physicality and frequency.
A stranger you meet a few times at a distant convention might as well be a internet rando on the other side of the world. It’s not a regular occurrence like running into your neighbor or co worked when touching grass.
If hot singles were in my area, we wouldn’t have the means or RNG circumstances of finding each other.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 days ago
i’m confused now, the issue is there are no hot single weebs in your area?
are you a hot single weeb?
Neiche indoor hobbies + small town with nothing going on = not a lot of people with those interest, and they probably go outside a rarely as I do.
Meeting people online is fun but just make you wish you knew IRL relatable people you could casually encounter in day today life. Most my friends don’t really care about anime and there eyes bleed if I start talking tech.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 days ago
sure, but you’re not really lonely, it’s that your socialization isn’t living up to your ideal of what it should be?