Comment on Are my standards for women to high?
iiGxC@slrpnk.net 1 month ago
If you really are a tren goblin you should stop taking unhealthy recreational drugs before you worry about drugs other people use. Like another user said, don’t expect anything you can’t bring to the table for them.
Also, the health of recreational drug use varies wildly. Having one drink of alcohol each night is different to getting very drunk every friday and saturday is different to going on cocaine benders every weekend is different to smoking a bit of weed after work is different to tripping on shrooms once or twice a month. Some of those have huge negative side effects on health, some have zero impact.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
I don’t take any PEDS my username is just a joke.
I believe that recreational drugs and alcohol even in moderation is not healthy. Its just my opinion if you disagree with me then that fine. We’ll just have to agree to disagree on that.
As far what do I bring to table. I can offer a woman a very loving loyal man. I will compliment her about her appearance everyday and tell her how amazing I think she is and I will never look at another woman sexually ever again.
iiGxC@slrpnk.net 1 month ago
I agree even a little bit of alcohol is unhealthy, but that’s backed up by the science on the topic. Classic psychedelics (shrooms, lsd, mescaline) are extremely safe tho, less impactful to health than an unhealthy meal. If health is that important to you, at least have a consistent and evidence based perspective on it.
Complimenting appearance everyday is a misguided thing to promise, it’s better to compliment things people have more direct control over, and it’s better to understand the person and their love languages and show love in a way that they’ll appreciate the most. Never looking at another woman sexually is an impossible standard which you’re better off not promising.
TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
I don’t know anything about psychedelics (shrooms, lsd, mescaline) but if those are extremely safe than I guess I would be okay with a woman taking those things in moderation.
As far as me complimenting her on her appearance everyday. I guess you’re right it is better to compliment her on things she has more direct control over.
And as far as me promising her never to look at another woman sexually ever again. I guess I should clarify what I mean byThat when I say that I will never look at another woman sexually what I really mean is that I will never jerk off to another woman ever again. The only woman that I will jerk off to is her and my waifu’s.