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• Vilian@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  of course, i totally agree with you, but only after the end and a lot of therapy, i came to the conclusion that my mental health were already bad before everything, and continuing it fucked in a level that i needed antidepressants and anti-anxiety to get out of bed

  You’re never responsible for what someone does to themselves btw.

  i totally agree too, but as i said, i didn’t want that to happen, i liked them, maybe not as a partner but as a friend, and I didn’t think that were fair to them, “it was because of their toxic parents not their fault”, the classic “I can fix them” in the end I couldn’t, they were using me as a step ladder, and in the end I was worse mentally than them and they were the one to end the relationship to date others and let me alone

  Surely you realize there must be some other way of handling that situation

  Yes, lesson learned, don’t let yourself go that low, you’re going to get depressed and anxious, and do things that is going to make yourself even more depressed and anxious and you can only go one day per week to a psychologist for a reason, when you need tobe someone psychologist 24/7 something isn’t right

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  • meliaesc@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m so genuinely happy to hear you’re doing better now.

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