Comment on A faked orgasm is just another kind of participation trophy

• bhamlin@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Because men sometimes take it personally when they “can’t make you cum.” Occasionally they get mad and blame you. It’s safer to just hide it and figure it out later if necessary.

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  • SparrowRanjitScaur@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    That sounds like both people are wrong. If one person defaults to anger and the other defaults to lying that sounds like a really unhealthy relationship.

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    • bhamlin@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      You’re not wrong, but actual relationship dynamics aren’t always so clear cut. I was merely commenting as to why and unwilling to make a judgement about the situation. You don’t always know what someone else is going through.

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