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peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Really? No.

Borderline personality disorder is a special kind of crazy, yes, but it’s severe abandonment anxiety at it’s core. I hate how much BPD gets thrown around, because it’s quite a bit more benign that people understand.

This situation doesn’t tell us ANYTHING about any mental disorder she may or may not have.

IT DOES tell us that she is not a healthy individual and he needs to fucking run because we don’t want to find out what really is wrong with her.

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Illuminostro@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
She wanted him to let her know when he got home so she could meet him at the door. To know he was there. That is the definition of the fear of abandonment.

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- peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  No, SHE wanted him to meet HER at the Uber when SHE got home.
  
  Today, before taking an Uber home, she sent me a text wanting me to be downstairs on the street to greet her as the Uber arrives. I read it and told her that yes, I’ll be there. I didn’t notice any further text because I was in the middle of something.
  
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