Aromantic asexuals exist, I'd imagine they'd be part of the people who are secure, at least in their not wanting a relationship. I am glad to see more people choosing this. I feel less people feeling like they absolutely must be in a relationship means fewer people are going to marry when it is not right for them, which leads to fewer divorces and fewer broken hearts.

Personally, I'd like to be in a romantic relationship but if that does not happen for me, then so be it. It would be nice to have but I also know I could be happy and fulfilled without one.

I took an attachment online test once and came out secure. Not sure if that has anything to do with my decision though lol