I dont think being single has anything to do woth insecurities. I see so many shitty people in shitty relationships that I realized anybody cam be in a relationship if they really wanted to. I would probably argue that toxic relationships are way more common than we think because people that constantly seek relationship are so afraid of being alone, so they get into one without considering the cost.

I’ve hooked up here and there but I’ve essentially been single for six years now. Of course I crave intimacy but I would rather be alone than deal with someone’s bs. It’s hard finding someone that would make it worth it. At least someone that would like to be with me too.