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Comment on Singlehood is on the rise around the world. New evidence suggests many single people are choosing to remain single and living happy lives.

OpenStars@discuss.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

“Insecure” isn’t quite the same as “unhappy”, plus how many people in relationships are happy?

Also as it mentions, being with the wrong person is far worse than being alone.

Still, yeah that second sentence in the title is a bit disconnected from the first sentence, even if technically the truth.

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3volver@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
The study falls short having no comparison to non-single people who are insecure. If the percentage of insecure non-single people is also 78% then being single has no impact on insecurity.

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- OpenStars@discuss.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
  That comparison was apparently done previously.
  
  The limited work on attachment and singlehood has produced inconsistent results (see Pepping et al., 2018 for a review) but suggests that single people are, on average, more insecure than those in relationships (Chopik et al., 2013).
  
  Oh but I see what you mean - the “secure” sub-group(s) in this study would have strongly benefitted from that comparison yes. But it gets more complicated b/c the terms they chose to use aren’t really the English-meaning of those words like “secure”, but rather “low attachment-avoidance and low anxiety”, hence insecure isn’t a single category but three (anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant).
  
  Anyway the comparison to non-singleness could be a future follow-up study:-).
  
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