Definitely decentralization is a good idea, but it also adds a layer of complexity that many are unable to grasp. Signal is always the easiest but I have major concerns about their longevity.
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anakin78z@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago I guess it doesn’t have to be, but I really like the idea of having control over the data, and not handing it over to some other entity, even if they say they’re not evil. It just seems like communication without a 3rd party in between is a good idea, so I’m trying to make that work for now.
artyom@piefed.social 3 weeks ago
anakin78z@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago Yea, we tried Signal a while back, but for whatever reason we didn’t care for it.
Cyber@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
+1 for XMPP
I’m currently using a public server until I get my own (Raspberry Pi) server running
Never had a missed notification / message and video calls are great too… even Grandma can use it
Using Conversations (Android) and Monal (ios)
wilo108@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
I host snikket (which is built on top of prosody) for my family and (especially) my pre-teen children and their friends. Pretty happy with it, all things considered.
@wilo108 @Cyber For your kids' friends, are you using a web interface like movim or something? Or are they installing their own clients?
wilo108@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
Everyone’s using a client; the snikket invitation link makes it pretty easy – I just print the kids a QR code (or text a link to their parents), and they’ve all figured it out easily enough. It’s not perfect, don’t get me wrong, but it’s the best I was able to come up with and it’s been successful.