Exactly what I was trying to say. You’re not neurodivergent ADHD on spectrum undiagnosed weirdo. You’re just you, we were all different all along.
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Chiarottide@lemmy.world 2 months agoI get why people are downvoting but I agree with your point. You don’t need to be part of a community or fall in a specific identity term to be valid. Just be you. You are valid as you are, no matter if your identity has been given a name or not. All identity terms are made up anyways, it’s just our dumb brain’s way of simplifying and denaturating complex stuff in a way it can understand
riodoro1@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Excrubulent@slrpnk.net 2 months ago
You can fall within a neurodivergent category and also be just you and valid regardless of a diagnosis.
Two things can be true at the same time.
What’s not true is blanket claiming that every person who thinks they’re neurodivergent is automatically wrong.
force@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I mean ADHD, Autism, Dyspraxia, etc. have a specific set of symptoms and specific treatments, and a large part of the population has those (as well as other mental disabilities like MDD, Bipolar, etc.). Many psychology researchers tackling the subject find that ADHD is severely underdiagnosed in the population (despite popular uneducated belief being that ADHD is overdiagnosed due to misinformation being widely spread on TV shows in the 2000s), with around 20% of people likely meeting the criteria for an ADHD diagnosis.
It’s postulated that the high occurence of ADHD in many populations comes from our days as hunter-gatherers – then, many of the behaviours of ADHD would have been extremely helpful, such as high alertness/awareness of changes in the environment such as sound cues and slight visual changes, and impulsiveness/drive to be active to seek out berries and prey and such, making a small portion of members of a group having ADHD be a net benefit. But most of those useful effects have become quite useless in modern society, and many of the symptoms (like dysfunctional working memory & inattentiveness) have become a massive detriment in capitalistic society.
Fun fact, there was a study done on prison populations in Estonia and it was determined that 40% of prisoners had undiagnosed ADHD – the symptoms of ADHD are kind of contrary to the core principles of being a capitalist worker, often with it being mistaken for “laziness” or “lack of motivation”, so they have a much higher likelihood of falling behind in life without proper treatment.
Demdaru@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Mate, I do not care what people think about me being tired every day I need to wake up early. However, can you imagine the satisfaction when I could finally look my father in the eyes and say to him to can it because it’s actually goddamn proven that this shit is real and unchangeable, no matter how many bullshit methods he thinks of? I had tobput up with his yapping on the matter for most of my life. Goddamn GLAD to be done with it.
MonkderDritte@feddit.de 2 months ago
You need to know yourself to be truly yourself.