Comment on degree in bamf

• stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I get and accept that you may dislike me based on my comments in this thread, I am more confused as to what the lemmy.zip instance has done to dismiss it outright.

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  • Adkml@hexbear.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Because everybody makes the same shitty comments and it’s almost more tiring than anything.

    If you so graciuosly “accept that we may dislike you” why can’t you understand we wouldn’t like people like you especially when it’s always the same tired bullshit from people like you.

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    • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      why can’t you understand we wouldn’t like like people like you especially when it’s always the same tired bullshit from people like you.

      Where did this come from?

      I made one post annoyed about the skin color being complained about, I also noted that I hate the word “mansplaining”, the rest of my comments in this thread have been mostly fine.

      So no, I don’t understand the intense dislike for me here, re read my comments and please see if I am so terrible.

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      • AOCapitulator@hexbear.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Someone is telling you there are issues with your posts, you then went looking at your own posts and saying to yourself “no, the rest of these are fine”

        Do you not see the issue here?

        You didn’t know any of them were not fine in the first place, that’s why you posted them, because you were ignorant about the context and implications

        Not an insult, ignorant means you were unaware. Continuing in ignorance after it’s been pointed out, however…

        That’s some dumbass shit right there

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      • Adkml@hexbear.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Take a look at the fucking thread and note the thirty other identical comments all being as intentionally totally stupid and ignorant as you are.

        That where the hostility comes from. You assholes constantly making the same dogshit excuses for having the exact same political beliefs as chuds but still acting morally superior to people who don’t reflexively get offended if somebody dares criticize some old white asshole.

        If you still don’t understand why the smug sanctimonious asshole being an old white dude and is relevant to women’s experience I stem please for the love of God at least shit the fuck up and stop feigning ignorance. It’s really obvious at this point nobody’s going to change your mind because you’re determined to disregard anything that criticizes white hegemony. Just like the chuds you love yo look down on while having the exact same belief system.

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      • Kuori@hexbear.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I made one post annoyed about the skin color being complained about, I also noted that I hate the word “mansplaining”

        nobody needed to see more than this to know you weren’t worth their time

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  • Stoneykins@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    It happens to be an instance federated with several idealogy-heavy instances, while itself being a general use instance with simple account creation procedures.

    It makes it a popular choice for people who want to make multiple accounts for trolling, as well as people who have unpopular (as far as lemmy goes) ideologies. You can hopefully understand the kind of friction that could create and the reputation is the outcome.

    You probably could have figured this out yourself if you just… Looked around. You shouldn’t expect people who are in disagreement with you to explain everything.

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    • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Ok, I can sort of see your explanation, but I disagree with you on the fact that other people should not be expected to explain their viewpoints to a person they disagree with.

      Not explaining just leads to bickering, with no one getting any point across.

      But if you explain the other party may gain a better understanding.

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      • AOCapitulator@hexbear.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I know what you mean, but also this type of logic is used to fuck with marginalized people, putting the onus on them to stop and explain to their aggressors why what is being done to them is wrong, why they are valid people, to stop and justify your own existence for one who would doubt it

        I know that’s not what you were doing, but that’s what we deal with constantly, and because others in the thread had already gone into detail about why it matters this guy was white and male, I did not need to explain again

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      • Stoneykins@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Maybe there is some hypothetical moral ideal on how people should behave in internet disagreements but I’m just trying to get you to be more realistics lmao

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