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Looks to me like you got (temp) banned for posting apparent incel comments in a hateful way. Not to mention your advice was exactly what the OP said they were avoiding from their own friends.

Perhaps reading the room is a good start before you click reply. Doubling down when called out for hateful comments will rarely go well, and defaulting to name calling and reducing well-received advice to a “lib salad” (whatever that means) won’t either. Perhaps stop behaving like the internet is some place where manners and respect are optional, and you’ll feel more welcome wherever you go.

I’m not trying to call you out or rehash that relationship advice here, only pointing out that you can disagree with people politely if you truly do desire respectful discourse. I hope you reflect on the ban and the comments replied to you. The world needs fewer, not more hateful incels or “alpha males.”

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hodja_nasreddin@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Looks to me like you got (temp) banned for posting apparent incel comments

Who are you to saying that? Some sorts an expert on incels? Or am I not allowed to have an opinion different from the crowd, or else I’m an incel? It’s more like you left comments reminiscent of “nice guys” on social media.

in a hateful way. And what was hateful about my comment specifically?

and reducing well-received advice to a “lib salad” Because it’s wasn’t “well-received” at all. You were literally trying to gaslight a man into a friendzone.

I hope you reflect on the ban and the comments replied to you. I was just reflecting that lemmigrad, is a community full of hypocritical idiots who ban their compares for the slightest deviation from their beliefs.

The world needs fewer, not more hateful incels or “alpha males.”

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- s38b35M5@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  
  Not temporary.
  
  Looks temporary to me: Image
  
  No interest in engaging with you further. Good luck, comrade.
  
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  - hodja_nasreddin@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    It didn’t show up on my screen. Either way, I’m not going back to a place that doesn’t allow even a semblance of normal discussion without labelling someone.
    
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