Comment on ‘It’s quite soul-destroying’: how we fell out of love with dating apps

• Clbull@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  You forgot ‘South East Asian and African women falsifying their location to match with Western men to hunt for the spouse and the means to a green card.’

  That’s what 99% of my matches on dating apps are.

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  • A_L1FE@lemmings.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    He got the 110% match rizz

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    • Clbull@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      It’s more of a problem with Okcupid than anything else.

      Customer Support gifted me a month of Premium half a year ago after a really bad experience I had with another user harassing me. I found out that nearly all of the 100+ likes I had on my Okcupid profile were from ladies who didn’t even live on the same continent as me. They’d just switch cities and countries all the time, then disclose where they actually lived in their profile description.

      GPS spoofing is incredibly easy to pull off, and despite it literally being a violation of the site’s Community Guidelines, their customer service team really don’t give a shit. Quote:

      Also, your profile details such as age, height, location, etc. must be accurate. We restrict searching and showing profiles based on mutual fit for details like age, location, gender, and orientation for a reason: so that you can find a person who is looking for someone just like you. Changing these details to appear in searches that you would not otherwise is not allowed and will result in your profile being banned.

      I logged into my account for the first time in about two months. I still see matches I reported that remain unbanned to this day.

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    • MadBob@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      They’re saying he can’t count on anyone any more.

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