In clearest terms, I want to completely erase Google from my life first, among other wants. Not expecting you or others to flee with detailed solutions/recommendations, but just to illustrate. My priority is likely:

• Photos, all photos, app accessible locally for my family (and ideally remotely, eventually)

• Notes, no more keep, but the basic flow of that app works for me, so similar UX hopefully without overcomplicating.

• Music, local library accessible to stream throughout my home on capable devices and app accessible. Remotely accessible by app, if possible.

• TV / Movies, as above with music, but ability to control with harmony remote on a TV and not keyboard/mouse ideally (but I do have decent workarounds here currently)

• Optionally run all above through a self hosted, local voice assistant or mounted HW buttons.

• Corresponding hue light control for media events, presence detection (maybe motion detection by room) and sun schedule. All without data going back to any 3p servers.

Nice to haves:

• Calendar away from google, that allows simple external appointment scheduling, shared calendars and great colorful, visual organization of a coming week. Ideally a safe, private way for calendar to connect to and create events from emails.

• Email, my own data and ability to use aliases that route back to main with corresponding tags ideally

• Owning my online bookmarks, browser/device agnostic, with usable recall help, auto tags and read it later structure so saved articles don’t just fall into the abyss. IIRC there was something called something like “Shinobi” that felt exciting for this need?