Comment on 40% of teenage boys believe women lie about domestic and sexual violence: new research
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 day agoThat’s up to 5% of reported cases. How many false accusations actually make it to a formal complaint, rather than simply circulating the rumor mill? If your intent is character assassination, you wouldn’t expose your accusations to scrutiny by bringing it to court.
Also, 1 in 20 is a huge number when you consider how many reported cases there are. That is by no means “rare.” Quite common, actually.
nodiratime@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
But remember, believe all women (disbelieve all men who are denying the accusations).
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 14 hours ago
Yeah, people need to understand that a false accusation of that sort can fuck you for your entire life. Some people say “well you deserve it,” because the assumption is that if you got accused then you did something to deserve it. Let’s see how that mentality ages when the fascists take over and start their purge by accusing all their opponents of whatever nonsense they can think of.
People will point to famous examples of men who escaped accountability (for actual crimes, mind you, not false accusations), and say “it didn’t destroy his life!” Well, yeah, cause that person is rich and famous, well-connected and powerful. Those ones always evade accountability.
I’m not talking about the too-rich-to-go-to-jail criminals running the country. I’m not talking about the kavanaughs or the trumps or the weinsteins.
I’m talking about the average, ordinary dude who has to work for a living but can’t find a job cause everyone in town has heard the rumors. I’m talking about the dudes who barely have any friends as it is, hardly anyone to vouch for them, and those who do slowly turn their backs as his cause seems more hopeless by the day. I’m talking about the nobody-class loser whose picture winds up on a secret facebook gossip group or on tea or wherever else and gets absolutely slandered and libeled by clout-chasers or dare I say petty retaliators for any perceived slights.
These people don’t have weinstein privilege or kavanaugh privilege or any other kind of privilege coming to save them. These people have their lives ruined, with no hope of redemption even after it comes out that the accusations were frivolous. Cause is anyone really going to trust them again?