Comment on Interesting question. For me it would be a dead grandfather

captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• brewbart@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Same. Two weeks ago, very suddenly and far too early. Just started retirement.

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  • captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Oof yeah that’s rough. Mine was years ago in my early 20s. She never got to see my sister become an adult, or to meet my wife, or to see me blossom into a somewhat healthy and responsible adult. Mourning is rough, but you get through it, it feels like nothing will be ok again, but you find a new ok.

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