Mental health acceptance is stilk a huge issue

Yes, definitely. Mental health (and regular healthcare in some specific ways) definitely has room for improvement. Only panhandler I remember was a guy asking people for money, with what looked like his mother, saying he had depression.

Also, if I posted any of my posts that I posted here about my mother’s behaviors on the Chinese internet

Depends on who the audience is. I’ve seen quite a few Chinese, particularly LGBT+ posting about their parents on xhs, but presumably there’s not a lot of boomers in their algo.

My ideal country would be one with a lot of Asians (or more specifically, ethnic Han Chinese) but that are westernized

If you have Chinese citizenship, but your hukou is mainland China, can you get a job in Hong Kong? I didn’t like the few hours that I spent there, it’s expensive and charmless, but it’s pretty westernized.