Stoat seems pretty good, but it’s still a bit buggy. It kept disconnecting and reconnecting, but I logged out and then back in again and that fixed it.
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gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 days agoStoat is the most discordlike, Matrix is the most privacy-focused
zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 4 days ago
stressballs@lemmy.zip 4 days ago
I’ve been trying so hard to work with Matrix. Then once you get it going everything is dead.
0x0@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
Go for XMPP, snikket is pretty much ootb.
stressballs@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
Those are great private messaging solutions, but not great for hosting communities.
wewbull@feddit.uk 3 days ago
That changes if people like you start using it.
Kinda like Lemmy.
stressballs@lemmy.zip 3 days ago
I know. I totally agree. But holy shit onboarding is terrible with Matrix. If people struggle wrapping their head around Mastodon, this is much worse.
I found Lemmy to be the easiest onboarding of all the federated networks.
wewbull@feddit.uk 3 days ago
I think I found Discord much more confusing than matrix, personally.
That said. Discord no longer exists for me. Account deleted today. Nothing of value was lost.
ICastFist@programming.dev 3 days ago
Wish DeltaChat would work better.
Or that Jami would properly look for new messages after a user configurable amount of time - sometimes it’ll only do that if you restart the app
msage@programming.dev 3 days ago
I’ve been using it exclusively (later along with self-hosted Jitsi) since 2017.
There’s tens of millions of messages, doing just fine.