Comment on Why does apartment management expect you to call the police over every tenant incident?

• MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Building manager isn’t your parents. If you have a problem with the building, that’s their issue, if you have a problem with your neighbour, you’re expected to deal with it like any other adult; talk to the person, if that doesn’t work, police.

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• MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  To be slightly more polite, as this seems like one of your first places… You absolutely want to keep a neutral third party involved.

  In my building, some of us are paying half or a third what new tenants do, the manager has a clear financial incentive to remove as many old timers as possible (and has tried her best.) If the norm was that building managers patrol for noise etc, you could much more easily get into a “he said/she said” with someone who has the means and motivation to remove you. Having the norm be police means that the complaint has to be somewhat valid, not just “enough that the building manager can increase their income stream.”

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• Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  While the details depend on the jurisdiction, in most of the saner places landlords can’t evict over something like noise. Your anger is misplaced.

  Have you tried being an adult and camly talking to your neighbour? Let them know what you hear, how its impacting you and some respectful suggestions on how things can be made better.

  Also what kind of noise are we talking about and when? Life makes noise, and you chose to live in an appt with thin walls. Some noise is to be expected.

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