The best thing to do with horrors like this, is to remember them, and remind others how horrible they were. When you have kids, remember how bad it was, and never do that to your kids. If this happens to them in school, remind the other parents how bad it was, get them all to refuse to accept it. Refuse to accept it as “part of growing up” protect your kids and other people’s kids.

Too many of us forget or forgive the shit we go through and just let it keep happening.

I’m so sorry you had such shitty adults growing up.