Yes agree.
I cant get into elden ring because I'm not learning anything when i die.
The odd time i get a dodge, or, parry or combo to work right, i can't repeat; so i'm obviously not picking up the right cue or the timing. Maybe it's steamdeck controller lag or something.
Or maybe i'm just too old - i spend half an hour here or there.
I just can't do 5-15 hour long playing sessions anymore which might be what it takes to learn this stuff.

I'm not sure they should change it to make cues more obvious though - there are just some games I'm going to be shite at.

I don't want it to be Moonstone on the amiga, turned into dull as shit within a few hours.