Comment on How do middle aged family men handle it?
rantron@lemmy.zip 4 hours ago
You have to find some time for yourself. I hear what you’re saying, I’m a principal at a school and father of three soon to be four. I lost myself and my family and my work.
Everything was supposed to be great but there was something missing. That something was myself. I didn’t hang out my friends anymore. I stopped playing dungeons& dragons and magic. No exercise, no fun outside of family.
Luckily for me I have an amazing partner, who supported me instead of doubt me when I told her something was missing. I got the whole gang back together. I play magic again, who really has time for d&d.
There’s that old saying that ranks so true to me. If you’re someone who constantly filling up other people’s vessels, you must make sure that you fill yours up as well.
You got this.