I don’t take nudes often, but when I do, I put some effort into it. Proper lighting, proper posing, interesting scene composition.

Also, I generally agree that if there aren’t any nudes of you, it’s often a good idea to not start making them (because society sucks, not because nudes are inherently a problem), but knowing that nude pictures of you are available online already is pretty freeing in that regard.

I don’t know what exactly my point is, except for that you might need to date people with higher nudes standards.