Comment on Has this ever happened to you?
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 2 days agoTrying to start a relationship by playing games is very much a good place to find red flags.
Comment on Has this ever happened to you?
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 2 days agoTrying to start a relationship by playing games is very much a good place to find red flags.
qarbone@lemmy.world 2 days ago
It might seem like a game to you but that’s someone’s life.
Do you have an alternative for how they should determine if a potential partner is a danger? Besides hiring a private detective or rolling the dice by finding out after they’re invested?
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 2 days ago
If you can’t trust a stranger even a little bit then don’t date complete strangers. Limit your dating pool to your circle of friends, friends of friends, people you already know or that your friends vouch for.
qarbone@lemmy.world 2 days ago
That is so utterly devoid of empathy that I have nothing left to say to you.
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 1 day ago
Yeah, lack of empathy on her side, I know. If you think your date is a potential rapist/murderer/… then why are you trying to date them?