First of all it takes two to make a babe. Maybe they should be calling her the names as well. Second as a once teen father (kid at 19), don’t be forced to marriage. You are young and she is young, if you do not have feelings that makes you go like yeah she’s the one, them don’t be coursed into marriage. You will be hating your life and likely making it a toxic environment for the child.

Remember now you just think not just about you but the child as well. I did not last a year with my baby mama and it was toxic as hell since we both didn’t have those feeling for each other.

This also isn’t s reason to just say fuck it and leave and never see the kid again. I would highly recommend a lawyer and just do the paperwork now. People can be assholes and can make you look like an asshole in front of court.

Lastly wear a fuckin condom kid. Now you have a responsibility for the next 18 years with a girl that might make your life a living hell.

P.s. don’t ever put the blame on your child. Not their fault you couldn’t wrap your shit son.