I can’t speak to men’s systemic issues as I am not a man.

But if you pay a matchmaker to find a woman who is compatible with you and your desires; realize that me telling you these things are deal breakers for the type of women that you want and you need to either address them or expand your definition of what you will accept because here are women different than what you expressed desire for who might not have an issue with the previously mentioned deal breakers.

For the guys who know that and stop demanding the 18 year old super model with the porn star sex drive, an intact hymen and a desire to have kids; they can find someone who is compatible.

(Not that there isn’t a subset of women with a very similar problem themselves)