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ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

I mean most kidnappings are from family or friends, not strangers. Most rapes are from family and friends, not strangers. It’s not outside of the realm of possibility to actually have to defend yourself against family or friends. In fact if it follows the trend it’d be more likely than having to defend yourself from strangers. Hell my friend’s house was broken into and he was pistol whipped by a masked dude, and everyone in the house said the same thing, “It was [Name Redacted], I would recognize that voice anywhere.” He had been our friend, y’know, until the armed home invasion. None of us had a gun at the time though unfortunatly, but had they one and it was used, it would have been used to defend against said “friend.” Not a stranger, a “friend.” Another friend in that same neighborhood pulled up to another mutual friend to (admittedly) sell him 2oz of weed, and that mutual friend stabbed him. That’s two people who were supposedly “friends.” The one that happened to me at walmart was a stranger, but as the data and my empirical evidence suggest, actually having to defend yourself from someone you know is more common, so, yeah I’m not surprised by that and never argued the opposite. My argument was that regardless of one’s familiarity with the attacker, DGU happens at a higher rate than “low.”

(Home invader did time in prison for robbing a gas station with a shotgun after this. Idk if he’s out now or what, that was the last I heard of him. No clue what became of stabby either, but stabee is doing fine now, took up a trade.)

Duh “most DGU stems from escalating arguments,” if an argument gets heated enough that someone needs to defend themselves however, they still need to defend themselves. Sure “letting the argument get to the point where uncle Steve pulls a knife” is “socially undesirable,” but if uncle Steve pulls a knife, he’s still pulled a knife. Whether or not you find it “socially undesirable,” if it happens then it happens. Not everything that takes place on this earth is “socially desirable.” While you should take steps to deescalate the situation, those don’t always work, maybe Steve likes meth (which is also socially undesirable, yet prevalent), whatever the reason, if they don’t work and Steve pulls the knife, as far as I’m concerned it’s more socially undesirable for me to be stabbed, uncle or not.

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