I don’t know what a house daughter is, so I can’t answer that.

You’re an adult and so is your father. Have a frank and open discussion about expectations. Be clear about what you do and how long you’ll do it. Your young and have a lot of time, make sure you go out and meet the people who get you and develop some skills that make you shine. I imagine your father wants this for you as well.

I’m glad to hear that the two of you have a loving relationship.