Comment on Would it be weird to ask my brother if I could tag along when he goes out with his friends?
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
As the younger brother in my family, I would feel so weird if my older brother followed me if I was hanging out with my peers.
What’s the age like? 30 hanging out with 25 year olds is very different from 20 year olds hanging out with 15 year olds. The older it gets, the less weird it gets (just as with romance, its similar with friendships).
Also, if there’s even a tiny problem with your relationship with your brother, thing will get very awkward.
I know I’m against the grain here, but its just my honest opinion.
(P.S. I’m not exactly on speaking terms with my abusive older brother)
CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this opinion and it entirely depends on their individual relationship. I would just warn to be conscious of boundaries and to not pressure the brother too hard on the subject. My concern would be OP shifting the burden of building a social life onto little brother as if his duty.