Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?
postman@literature.cafe 21 hours ago
Maybe I missed something but nowhere in this discussion do you mention whether you want to sleep with him? Even when people sort of prompted you.
If you fancy him, take it to the next level. I imagine he’s keeping it light for plausible deniability in case nothing happens or he gets rejected.
Either make a move or tell him you’re not interested in a relationship. Figure out your own intentions instead of trying to mindread him.
arumi@endlesstalk.org 21 hours ago
I have clearly mentioned in the post that I don’t want to sleep with him, I am a virgin and want to save my first time for a long term relationship
zymagoras777@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
What makes you think your assumed “long term relationship” will actually last?
arumi@endlesstalk.org 19 hours ago
Even if it doesn’t last, i would prefer it over losing it in a one night stand. Hope that helps